There are really moments where even your closest friends are getting pissed off because of you.
Well, our group (-GM-) had experienced that today and yesterday. We shed tears because we’re close to each other and didn’t expect that such event will happen to us.
But after many texts and few talks, we managed to get our relationship
back in track again. It was really painful when you ignore or you’re
being ignored by somebody who is close and always with you almost
everyday. Admit it or not, even when you are close to someone, when the
time comes that you have misunderstandings you somehow hesitate to
confront her or talk to her about the problem. It’s
not that easy to say directly how you feel towards the situation
because you worry that she/he might get hurt of what you’re going to
say, right?
But the best thing to do is to be HONEST. That’s for sure. You can’t fix things if you will try to avoid it, it will get worst instead. Sometimes you have to give way to your partner/friends to calm their selves and spend some time thinking.
People’s mind our close, literally, when they are angry. But you have
to remember that in friendship, there are different sides. Listen to
what your friends will tell you. Express yourself.
By these things, you’ll be a better person and be matured enough to
understand why and how the problem happened. And what more important
is, after that bad experience you’ve been through, in the end you still remain friends, accepts your faults and you became closer to each other.
This experience made us strong enough to face each other’s anger. We managed to admit our faults and apologized to each other. I can now sleep without worrying what will happen on Monday. I can’t spend another day without talking with my friends.
I want to apologize though I already said it a lot in my text messages, to Donna, Maggie, Faye and RG! Guys, I’m really sorry if I didn’t get hold back my temper and led me to do things like walking out. It was the first time I did that.
Mags and Faye, I became too emotional that I even ignore you, when you tried to follow and get me. I really appreciate what you did.
I felt like I was so special to you guys that you even know the jeepney
where I was. I’m really thankful that you didn’t get mad. Thanks for
lending me your ears..hehehe.
Donna,
this was the first time we’ve been in this kind of situation, right?
You made me realized my mistakes and I promise I’ll always remember that
so it won’t happen again. Now I know we got some similarities when we
got angry…we don’t want to make contact to people who became the source of our pain and we want to spend some time alone. And I was so stupid not thinking how you feel that moment when we approached you. I’m really sorry.
RG,
sorry if I hang up on you. I know you’ve got your own problems. I don’t
what to add another worrying in your mind. I didn’t know that you’re
clueless to what happened yesterday. SORRY!
Poyan,
thanks for helping us. Even when you were not with us physically, you
exerted effort to know what is happening to us. You even call me late
at night to assure me that it would be ok. You’re not just a good friend but also a true friend. I’m always grateful to you. Thank you so much.
Thanks a lot for today! Hope we can manage things more carefully next time…with less tears! Hahaha! Good day!
